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This excerpt is from The Prince of Sumba, Husband to Many Wives. Copyright 1998 Don Milton All Rights Reserved. All Copyright Laws Apply - Thou Shalt Not Steal
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Chapter 9 - John's Place John led us to a structure at the side of his compound
that was overlooking the road we'd just come up. He'd converted the deck of an
old ship into a gazebo of sorts, complete with masts, wheel, and navigational
instruments. John, his family and the others sat down to take in the view as I
took the helm. Turning the wheel this way and that, I wondered if this ship had
ever been at sea or if it was just a novelty where a man could dream. To fly
from one jungle mountain peak to another; suspended on the wings of his own
imagination. When I stopped playing with the wheel, Asina shouted.
"Don't stop, Ish, You've been fanning all of us with your day
dreams. Dream on!"
Were they all laughing at me or at Asina's quick wit. Sam felt
obliged to intercede.
"Don't be embarrassed, Ish. John had me fanning his whole family
for nearly half an hour before I realized the wheel was attached to these fans."
Sam pointed to the fans above the seating.
"I'd sailed this ship to that mountain top across the canyon before
I woke from my day dream. How far did you get, Ish?"
Distracted from my day dream, I protested.
"Hey, no visitors allowed. You interrupted a perfectly good day
dream."
"So what were you dreaming of, Ish?" Suni asked.
Asina couldn't resist.
"He was dreaming of you, Suni! Just don't forget you were only
playing his wife at the Bible study."
"Uhhhhhh." The other girls lifted their voices to tease Suni.
I wondered now if Suni had noticed my leering at her as she
sashayed about her Sari-Sari store on the day we'd arrived. If so, she certainly
had reason to believe that I found her attractive. It was surprising that such a
feminine charmer had not been seriously courted. Then I remembered how few
single Christian men there were in Sam's church. It was only yesterday that I'd
attended my first after service coffee but now it seemed so distant. So much had
happened in just one day. I prayed in my thoughts that Suni would soon find the
right man. Why should she have to settle for less than she deserved.
Suni was silent in response to the teasing, resigned to the fact
that they'd never stop. Even my wife Mary believed that Suni had a crush on me.
She said it wasn't unusual and that Suni wouldn't be the last Christian girl on
Mindanao to have eyes for me. Pastors were the ultimate catch. She told me it
was one of the hazards of the job but this was one hazard the mission board
hadn't told me about.
John graciously interrupted the teasing.
"We'll be eating within a few minutes and I'd like to give you a
chance to see more of our place before lunch." He walked up the steps to his
palatial home and nodded in the direction of Lake Lanao. "The city that you see
there in the distance is the Islamic City of Marawi, probably ten miles as the
crow flies. Those dots you see on the lake are rather large fishing boats. We've
got some binoculars around here somewhere and you can have a look after we eat.
The trees that you see growing on our mountain are redwoods. Ish, you know them
as Philippine Mahogany. Probably not like the jungle you'd imagined, huh? We're
at an elevation of just over 4000 feet and fairly safe from the storms on this
side of the mountain since they blow in from the east. We hope you'll be able to
stay for the night. It will give you a chance to see our mountain sunset."
Sam answered for us, "Ish, Mary, this is the beginning of the
adventure we promised. I hope you'll enjoy it."
Mary gushed in response to John's invitation, "It's wondrous. What
a beautiful place you and your family have. Of course we'll stay."
One of John's wives now spoke, or was it one of his older
daughters? I wasn't sure.
"Thank you Mary. Our home is your home."
John gave me and Sam a private tour while Mary and Sarisa went off
with the rest of the family.
John took me and Sam to his armory first. He had an impressive
array of knives and guns. I'd seen some like them at gun shows; well out of my
price range. Then he took us to a room at the center of his armory. I wondered
if the contents of the boxes he'd brought from the market lay beyond the door.
Instead, the door opened to reveal a huge library. His collection included an
enviable assortment of antique books. He had many of the major works of the
16th, 17th, and 18th centuries, written in German, Spanish, English, and Dutch.
"They were a gift to me." John said.
"Some gift! The giver was very generous. Paradise Lost, Pilgrims
Progress in all these languages? You've got most of Shakespeare's works in both
German and English. And tracts? You've got something here written by John Milton
bearing a print date of 1662. That's during his lifetime!"
"I did well then. Go ahead, page through them. They won't break."
John assured me.
While I was going through John's library, he and Sam were enjoying
coffee and cookies and a leisurely conversation. I was too enlivened by my new
discovery to take part. Just then I found something I could scarcely believe.
"John!" I caught myself shouting then whispered, "Do you realize
that these eight books alone are worth well over a quarter million dollars?" I
showed him the eight identical issues of John Milton's Paradise Lost with a
print date of 1667.
"$327,672 the last time I priced them. You'll find they're in mint
condition, Ish. Printed by Simmons."
"Sorry John, I guess in my excitement, I forgot the obvious. What
collector of such books wouldn't know the value?"
"Don't feel bad, Ish. It's hard to believe that such books could be
found on a jungle mountain top either, but here they are. Haven't you noticed how dry
the air is in my library?"
"The air does feel a bit dry." I answered.
"I have the humidity controlled. These books are literally
immortal."
"In more ways than one." I replied.
The smell of paper and ink filled my nostrils. More so, my head was
filled with wonderings. I wondered what occasioned the Lord to choose one man
over another. Why choose Martin Luther to open up the gospel to the common man
in the 16th century? Why use John Milton in the 17th century to reveal through
epic prose the glory of God's free gift of salvation? Why use the Wesleys with
their preaching and song to lay the way for the great revivals of the 18th and
19th centuries and what lesson was the Lord revealing to us in the decline of
20th century morality? Yes, I wondered and I pondered. Would the 21st century
bring someone new? Was yesterday's revival part of some new plan the Lord had
begun? Oh that I could be blessed by the Lord to open the path for a new
awakening. There was my ego again or was it the Lord's destiny calling me. I
prayed in silence that whatever it was, I would trust in the LORD with all my
heart; and lean not unto my own understanding.1
"I'm sure lunch is ready." John said as he led us to the door.
As soon as we stepped outside, the extraordinary aromas from the
kitchen wiped out any memory of the smell of old books, paper, and ink. I could
have easily found the food with my eyes shut but pretended ignorance as John led
us inside.
His dining hall had among many other furnishings, a banquet sized
table whose top was made of a single cut of narra. It had intricate designs
along the edges, inlaid mother of pearl, and a glasslike finish. It was the only
table of its kind I'd ever seen. It finally dawned on me that John was a very
rich man.
John and his entire family were now seated around the table with
me, Sam, Sarisa, Mary, and the girls. My appetite by this time had grown and not
just for food. I wanted to hear what must be an incredible tale of adventure and
faith. Few men had John's riches and fewer still, a family such as this.
"Sam, will you lead us in prayer?" John asked.
"Heavenly Father I ask that You bless this food and this household.
I ask that You bless Ish and Mary as well as the other guests. Guide our hearts
as each new truth you reveal. I especially ask, Lord, that you will guide me and
Ish and John as we are the heads of our wives. Guide our wives also as they
submit to us in the Lord. In the precious Name of Our Lord & Savior Jesus, Who
is Messiah, Amen."
"Amen." We all agreed.
Nearly forty of us now sat around John's banquet table. His wives
kept busy moving plates of food between us. Even a Hollywood set designer
couldn't have produced a more spectacular presentation. At each end of the table
was a small litson baka, that is to say a caramel brown roasted cow. There must
have been a dozen roasted manok Bisaya. That's what they call their free-range
chickens. Some were basted with coconut milk and cloves, others with chopped
tomato and onion sauce and of course all had plenty of garlic used skillfully to
enhance the flavor. There was Orange Chicken, Chinese style and every type of
fresh vegetable you could imagine prepared in all manner of ways and fruits with
names I couldn't pronounce.
"The way to a man's heart is through his stomach." Sam opened the
conversation, "It looks like all of John's wives took that route. Wouldn't you
agree, Ish?"
"A well worn path indeed!" I couldn't believe what I'd just said
but everyone laughed, especially John.
Now that the ice was broken, the members of John's family went
straight to making conversation with whoever sat nearest them. They were
wonderfully hospitable and the food was bountiful.
The beautiful young woman who'd earlier told us their house was our
home came over to me.
"I'm sorry, Pastor Ish, I didn't introduce myself earlier. I'm
Ruth, John's eldest daughter."
"Nice to meet you Ruth. Please, call me Ish. This is a wonderful
dinner you all have prepared for us."
"Thank you, Ish. I brought a tray that has everything we've cooked
so that you can decide what you like best."
"That was kind of you." I replied.
I thought she was simply going to put the tray on the table between
me and Mary but instead she pulled up a chair and inserted it between the two of
us and sat down. Before I had a chance to consider what she was doing she lifted
a piece of something to my mouth, feeding me.
"Snow peas and bamboo shoots in tamarind sauce. You like it?"
My mouth was full so I just nodded. It was tart and tangy without a
hint of hot. The bamboo shoots and snow pea pods crunched lightly in the creamy
sauce. Maybe if I'd had this as a boy I would have been able to finish my
vegetables. As if reading my mind, Ruth said.
"The children love it. It's not too spicy."
She was about to stuff my mouth again so I covered it and asked,
"So, how many children are there?" I let down my guard long enough for Ruth to
scoop in another mouthful as she said,
"Stuffing made of ground beef, eggs, lemon, green peppers, crumbs
from our native bread and a portion of love."
I could taste the love. She continued.
"My father has twenty eight children. I'm the only daughter of
marriageable age."
Suni, who had been sitting on the other side of me, now picked up
something from the platter and much less delicately than Ruth shoved a piece
into my mouth.
"Our native fruit, langka, sweet to the taste and soft to the touch
with a double portion of love." Suni recited this local proverb as if wanting to
make sure I knew she could pamper me every bit as much as Ruth.
I placed my hand on Suni's to convey that I understood. It was
enough. She went back to the conversation she'd been having with another of
John's family as if Ruth and I didn't exist. Mary was quietly shaking her head
in disbelief over my encounter with Ruth and peering at me sideways. She smiled
and nodded as if to signal that she understood that she dared not interfere with
anything that might be local custom, then she returned to her conversation with
one of John's wives. Ah, local custom, sometimes a pain but today, a one of a
kind experience. Well, not to leave Suni out, I should say, two of a kind.
Ruth continued feeding me, telling me about each dish they had
prepared and making sure that I knew which of them was her own contribution.
In the middle of the table was a huge kettle of kalabaw stew,
Bisaya for water buffalo. I had not cared much for this when I'd tried it in the
city but Ruth assured me that I would like it.
"This one was made from a young and fat kalabaw, fed only on rice."
She said, spoon feeding me.
"Mmm." I hummed.
I recognized only a few of the fruits that Ruth had adorning her
platter. Some had simply been peeled. Others were in a sweet sauce that
accentuated the taste.
"We call this the forbidden fruit." Ruth said. "You must not eat
too much of it."
She held it to my lips first then placed it in my mouth. It
reminded me of the flavor of a candy that I'd had as a child.
"So... why shouldn't I eat too much of it, Ruth?"
"A single lady with honor cannot discuss such things. Have Mary ask
Sarisa about it later. I'm sure she knows." Ruth answered shyly.
I wondered what it could be, a love potient? And it was being fed
to me by John's beautiful young, and, in her words, marriageable daughter? What
could be next?
I could see now that Ruth was doing all she could to keep from
laughing out loud.
"Silly," she said, "It's an apple."
She batted her eyes in jest, then elbowed me.
"You're a character, Ish. I bet you weren't this easy to tease when
you were a college boy."
She was right. In college I was an egotistical dog. Most college
boys were. It didn't make any difference that I was a Christian. Any woman who
sought my attention had to be flawless. Any defect could easily disqualify her;
being too nice, being too mean, being too flirtatious, not being flirtatious
enough. If I couldn't find an imperfection at first sight, I'd find one soon
enough. That is, until I met Mary. I was thankful that this interchange with
Ruth had reminded me of Mary, the great love of my life.
Ruth now opened the huge decorative oyster shell that was in the
middle of her platter. There were tiny oysters floating in sauce.
"Oysters in cashew sauce with ginger and diced lamb. This is our
customary dish for a groom on his wedding night, and this time I'm not kidding,
Ish."
As well I knew. All four ingredients were high in zinc. I
remembered what I'd studied; that the Israelite men were believed to have been
extremely fertile because of their high intake of lamb. I wondered; why was Ruth
feeding me as if it were my wedding night? Did she have plans for me or did they
simply have a custom to feed their guest of honor by the hand of their most
beautiful maiden?
Ruth raised the spoon again to my lips. It was exquisite. I could
taste each ingredient and yet they combined into something entirely different. I
let her feed me till I had finished all of it. She then put her delicate fingers
into the sauce that remained in the bottom of the oyster shell and pulled out a
small pearl. Wiping it with a cloth, she handed it to me.
"This is for you to remember this day."
"Thank you Ruth, I will."
I wondered if there was some hidden meaning behind Ruth's gesture
with the pearl. Nonetheless, I would remember this day. I couldn't help but
think that John had given me the highest honor a guest could have; to be fed by
the hand of his maiden daughter.
After Ruth had hand fed me a sample of everything on the platter,
she asked.
"So which of these would you like me to bring you?"
"They all tasted fantastic Ruth, especially what you prepared, but
I'm full. You fed me so much. Thank you."
I bit my tongue to keep from saying anything more. I wanted to tell
her that it had been one of the most sensual experiences I'd ever had. Just the
same, I'm sure she saw it in my eyes.
"Thanks for letting me serve you, Ish."
Ruth left to clean up after the feast. My eyes followed her,
feasting once again. Just before going through the kitchen doors she turned as
if knowing our eyes would meet. They did. Her eyes were warm and full of love. I
hadn't seen such eyes in many years. Did she know my hunger better than I? Was
this simple desire the beginning of a series of steps that would lead to sin or
had I already sinned by desiring her?
I knew John would have been pleased to see me marry his daughter
and Suni was no longer hiding her own desire for me. I suddenly realized that
I'd been studying how to witness to polygamous peoples for so long that I was
lost in confusion. I could no longer distinguish between the rules that applied
to them and those that I must follow. I was even beginning to question how those
two sets of rules could be different. I took a deep breath and let it out. Then
I assured myself that once Mary and I were far from this place that my desire
would be for her only. I remembered the verse that Mary so loved reading to me,
Philippians 4:8:
"Whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things
are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever
things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue,
and if there be any praise, think on these things."
My breathing grew shallow again as my chest tightened. Why did
Mary's favorite verse have to come to mind right at this moment? Ruth and the
girls who accompanied us fit the description in this verse precisely! Was the
Lord speaking to me through Mary's favorite verse? Was I to think on the girls
or was I simply an over imaginative husband whose wife had forgotten the words
of my grandfather at our wedding;
"A wife whose words are never praise
A mistress fair will soon replace."
1. Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and
lean not unto thine own understanding. Click
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